There seems to be a theme in the emails I’ve received and the phone calls I’ve had, with friends, family, and random people who somehow found this blog and find it relatively entertaining. (At least, enough to write me, I gather…) So, without adieu, here are some answers to your most pressing questions:
Is the Pollution really that bad?
Yes. It’s beyond gross…for me, anyway. Other people seem to be coping just fine, but there have been times when I walk down the street and end up gagging half the way. It’s not a pretty sight. When I go running and then use a Q-tip, usually it’s grey…you don’t even want to know the colour of my kleenex.
What American (or familiar) companies have you seen?
The two main contenders are McDonalds and 7-11. You can’t walk a block or two without seeing at least one of these. A close second is KFC, and I’ve seen a few Ford dealerships, the Body Shop, Blockbuster, Burger King, and Cost-Co. I’ve seen signs for Dunkin Donuts, Pizza Hut, Dominos, TGIFriday’s, and Subway. And, I was shocked to find a “Lush” at the mall. (This is an awesome bath store that I used to get a lot of bath “balls” from in Vancouver.) What surprised me is that I haven’t seen a Wal-Mart. I thought they were notorious for having sweatshops and such in the area, and expected to see at least one store, but so far, it hasn’t happened.
How manymosquito bites do you have now?
Eh, I lost count at 50. And they’re ruthless…arms, legs, back, face, fingers, toes and other places too…
What is the weirdest food you’ve tried?
I have a lot of weird food allergies and frequently change my diet to experiment in hopes I can find an eating pattern that won’t make me sick. (Currently, I prefer the raw-vegan thing.) That being said, considering that I will probably never be in this place again, and I know that different cultures have different ways of preparing things, I vowed to just try everything that was offered to me. Who knows, maybe an asian-type diet really is what my body needs…and besides, my reactions are pretty swift, so I’d know within minutes if it was something that really wasn’t good for me.
So, (vegan and veggie friends, please advert your eyes) some of the more unusal dishes have included octopus mouth, pig intestine, frog, and coagulated sheep’s blood, (they also offer duck, pig, and goose.) None of these were particularly appetizing, but I tried them nonetheless.
The cool thing about being here is that somehow I can eat the bread…my little gluten intollerance has gone by the wayside, and I’m not quite sure how, but I’m enjoying it.
Have you noticed any racism?
Luckily, I’m blissfully unaware of much of the Chinese language, so I haven’t really been subjected to any untowards feelings. I’m sure there have been moments that the locals have sworn at me under their breath, but it’s not like anyone has come at me with a pick-axe screaming, “You American! You Suck!” or something to that effect.
I have noticed that people really stare at me. I mean REALLY stare at me. I prefer to think that they’re staring at my utter beauty…but the culture is pretty homogenius, so I do stick out as a random white chick.
In terms of racism, I’ve noticed that the people I talk to have fairly negative things to say about other Asians. Chinese, Japanese, and Korean are slammed on a regular basis. Especially the Korean. I’m not sure why, and I don’t think I’d get an honest answer if I asked.
Do Taiwanese like Americans?
I have no idea. They seem to like me…
So are you fluent in Chinese now, or what?
(Insert uproarious laughter here) That would be NO. I think I have a bit of a mental block when it comes to learning Chinese. It’s just not working for me. You’d think that after studying seven languages I’d pretty much master how to learn another one quickly, and I have been able to pick up some words, but nothing major:
Ni-how “hi”
Ni-how-ma “How are you?”
Hung How “I’m good”
Boo-How “I’m not good”
How-Chuuuh “delicious”
She-ay she-ya “thank you”
Boo ka chi “you’re welcome”
ee, er, san, tsuh, oooou “1,2,3,4,5″
jo-dai “tape”
jen-dauw “scizzors”
Lao-shuh “teacher”
How do you do laundry without a dryer?
It takes a bit of planning, let me tell you. Because of the humidity it does take a few days for clothes to dry, which I did not realise. I’m used to just getting everything done in one fell swoop, but here, I had to plan and make sure I had enough clothing to last the few days until my stuff would be dry…oh, and pray that it didn’t rain, because that would set me back even farther.
What other little cultural quirks have you seen?
Well, first off, nobody has carpeting. Too much humidity, so homes, schools, stores and even sidewalks, either have concrete, (not asphalt…CONCRETE) or ceramic tiles. Which, is interesting, because it rains a lot, so this can make for a very slippery place to walk.
Everybody smokes. Ok, not everybody, but a LOT of people. You’d think with the pollution, they’d cut back on the toxins, but apparently not.
The busses have TVs on them filled with Advertising, of course, but also English lessons. They have little cartoons that act out scenarios with repeated phrases. Also, they have the phrase of the day. Today’s was, “You can say that again!”
The garbage is collected daily. Which, if you think about it, since they throw out toilet paper instead of flushing, it’s a good thing.
On maps around town, North does not always face up. It took me awhile to figure that out.
Movie theatres have assigned seating.
Some people cover their mouths when using their cell phones, yet chew with them WIDE open when eating.
I’ve passed a few fountains, but…no coins. The smallest denomination is $1, which is a copper coin, (like the penny), but even those aren’t in the wells…I’m not sure about why the fountains are clean of money, but I’ll probably ask before I go.
And, the police drive around with their lights flashing. That’s just how they patrol…its when the sirens come on that you’re in trouble…
Do they smell?
Let me preface this question with a little backstory, lest you think my friends are idiots. I ran out of deoderant, and had a bugger of a time trying to find some. I went to every convenience store within a half-mile radius, but NO ONE had deoderant. I mentioned this to a few folks and they asked if people had BO. And, actually, they don’t. I haven’t noticed any particular odours, and I’ve been on the MRT at rush-hour, so I think I have a good idea.
And, yes, I did finally find some deoderant at a beauty shop.
Are there gender issues?
Well, I was told before I left that I would have a problem because I’m female. I can’t say that I’ve experienced any outright sexism…but most of the people I worked with were VERY strong females.
There have been a few cases where I’ve heard the volunteer mommies talk about how one was unfortunate enough just to have daughters.
Apparently, a boy is very important because the parents go to live with the boys family, and when a woman gets married, she really is just joining a family and not starting a new one. So, if a woman doesn’t have at least one boy, she is looked down upon and pitied because she failed to create someone to take care of her and her husband in old age.
One mommy tried to get me to play the pity game too and agree that it was just such a shame that this other woman didn’t have a son, and I remarked that in the US, we only care if the children are healthy and happy…not if they’re boys or girls. I think I offended her, but whatever.
Now, I don’t know if this is a sexist thing, but I was sent to work alone at Cloud Elementary. Ben was the director at Keelung with Pandora and Nina assisting, and I was put in charge of Cloud. However, the folks at the Dream Community thought I was a boy from our initial emails thinking my name was masculine. They didn’t realize I wasn’t until I arrived and it became quite apparent that I’m pretty darn female.
I don’t know if they would have put me in charge had they realized this ahead of time or not, but it’s an interesting twist to things.
Would you do it again?
Well, there’s two answers to this question, actually. If you’re asking whether knowing all that I do now, would I go again, the answer would be, “Yes, of course!” Life is just life, and I’m all for experiencing as much as I can in whatever time I have.
If you’re asking whether I’ll come back for another go-around…well, probably not. I’ve learned so far to never say “never,” but I will say that having been here, I don’t feel an overwhelming desire to return. I can’t imagine a situation where I would return, but you never know…
I’m an artist thinking of going to the Dream Community this fall. Do you think I should go?
I am not the type of person to tell people to make decisions in their life based on my experiences. The things that I found frustrating, you might find endearing. The things that bothered me, might not effect you that much. It’s all relative to your own history, experience, and tolerance levels.
When I spoke with Sonia before I left, she mentioned a lot about the gender thing, but I didn’t have that experience. Likewise, she didn’t mention pollution so much, which was something that REALLY effected me. If you’re a vegetarian, you might have a harder time, if you don’t tollerate heat and humidity well, you might be downright miserable. These things can effect your creativity and productivity…its hard to function if you can’t get a good night sleep from battling mosquitoes or heat or whatever…or if you’re starving yourself because you just can’t seem to find anything you like to eat…
The wonderful thing about the Dream Community is that they do offer this experience completely at their expense. You will learn a lot, you will get to do art, and you might just have some fun too. If it’s something that you’re even remotely curious about, then I think you owe it to yourself to try working on an event. You’ll never know unless you go.